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Take a good, hard look at your life. Are you where you want to be?
It is easy to get caught up in the things you think matter, which diverts you from the things that really do matter.
Sometimes we miss the things that have the most value for us because we are unable to label and box them. Some of life's most amazing things are unexpected and unclassified.
Numbers are nice, but they don't always add up the way we want them to. You can spend your time and money getting the facts as they are, or you can spend you time, money and energy on creating the joys you want in your life.
You can be reactive to what life brings you, or you can be proactive and learn how best to dance with the moves life brings you, and learn when and how to take the lead.
You can ask for facts, or you seek solutions. Facts take less work, less understanding, less self awareness.
Do you want a support structure, or leaning post? Do you want to be supported until you have your own strength, or do you want to be ever leaning on another?
Do you want to be stuck in what is, or do you want to stretch and grow?
Do you need a plan? need support for that plan? need someone impartial? strive to improve yourself? feel like there's more to life and you're missing out? know who you are? know where you are? know where you are in relation to where you want to be? have a willingness to change in action or perspective? feel out of tune with life? know the difference between what fear says and your gut tells you?
If you... need a plan... need support for that plan... need someone impartial... strive to improve yourself... feel like there is more to life and you're missing out... don't know who you are.... don't know where you are... don't know where you are in relation to where you want to be... have a willingness to change in action or perspective... feel out of tune with life... don't know the difference between what fear says and what your gut tells you...
We should talk.
Many will tell you you need to do things differently, but the only one you need to consider listening to is that voice within that says that things aren't working as they are.
Many will tell you that their way and their way of looking at things is the best. What is best will vary from person to person and circumstance to circumstance.
If you are caught up in what "should" be instead of being able to be who you truly are, odds are something is telling you to reach out and do things differently.
If that is the case, I may just be able to help. It doesn't need to be me, of course, however I highly suggest you listen to that part of you that is seeking to help you find your way.
As a child there were adults who did what they could to help you learn what you needed to, sometimes even expediting the process. Someone who can do the types of things I can can also help to expedite the changes you desire as the amazing adult you now are.
If you are happy with the way things are, then perhaps a conversation will serve to make the good even better.
Any which way, when the time is right to do something, you know. Whether or not you act on it is another story, but you DO know.